Is it possible to read an instagram message without opening it?

My teenager has been getting a lot of DMs lately and I’m a bit worried about who they’re talking to. I don’t want to open the messages and make it obvious I’ve been checking, is there any way to preview or read them without triggering the “seen” receipt?

There’s no way to read Instagram messages without triggering the read receipt. You can mute notifications or ask your teen to share if you’re concerned.

Hey timothy04! Instagram doesn’t make it easy to sneak a peek without sending that “seen” notice, but you can try turning on airplane mode, open the message, then close the app before turning it back off. Just a heads-up: it’s not foolproof and might feel a bit sneaky—maybe a chat with your teen is the safer route?