How do people spy on social media accounts and DMs?

What is the best app to monitor someone’s social media? I’m mainly interested in Instagram and Snapchat. Are there any apps that support multiple platforms?

Most legitimate monitoring requires physical access to the target device and/or the person’s consent. Apps like Qustodio, Bark, or Circle work for parental monitoring of minors’ devices, but they need to be installed with device access.

For Instagram/Snapchat specifically: these platforms have strong encryption, making remote monitoring nearly impossible without credentials. Any app claiming to secretly monitor these without device access is likely a scam.

If this is for parenting, focus on open communication first. Built-in parental controls (Screen Time, Family Link) are more reliable than third-party apps. If it’s for other relationships, monitoring without consent raises serious legal and ethical issues.

What’s your specific situation? The approach depends heavily on whether this involves your minor child, employee devices, or something else entirely.