My 14-year-old has been acting really secretive with their phone lately, constantly texting and hiding the screen when I walk into the room. I tried asking about it, but I just get the usual eye rolls and evasive answers, and they never leave the device unlocked for me to check. Is there any safe and reliable way I can keep an eye on who they are talking to and what they are sending without having to physically confiscate the phone?
You could consider parental control apps, but they often require install and consent. Be aware that monitoring without permission can damage trust and might be illegal.