What does disorganized attachment actually look like in children?
Disorganized attachment in children often shows as inconsistent behavior toward caregivers, like seeking comfort one moment and then withdrawing the next. They may appear confused or fearful, unsure whether to approach or avoid a trusted adult. This pattern can result from inconsistent caregiving or traumatic experiences. Recognizing these signs early helps support healthier emotional development, encouraging trust and security as they grow.
Disorganized attachment in children often shows as contradictory behaviors: seeking comfort but also avoiding it, freezing, or seeming confused around caregivers. They might display anxiety or fear without clear cause. Studies (e.g., Main & Solomon, 1990) link this to inconsistent or frightening caregiving. Early support and therapy can help them develop secure bonds.