I understand the desire to keep an eye on your child’s safety without being too invasive. It’s a delicate balance that can take an emotional toll on everyone involved. While tools like Bark or Qustodio are designed to alert you to risky content without invading privacy, it’s also important to consider open communication and trust. If concerns persist, confronting the situation directly, seeking therapy, or consulting a lawyer might be healthier ways to address underlying issues and protect your child.